There are so many places in the world that are great destinations for finding space, relaxation and, if you want, excitement and adventure. When someone takes a journey either near or far and finds a space for themselves and come back with great memories of the experience, it is time very well spent – especially if you were able actively relax, enjoy your time or even feel that you’ve achieved something new and interesting . Here’s 2 of my initial entries in this category.
- Newfoundland – Virtually all of the Province of Newfound, Canada is a place of peace , tranquility and adventure. The province has a great online site. There is a city on the East Coast, Corner Brook as well as the Capital on the East Coast of the province. One of my favourite spots is just outside the City of St. John’s called Cape Spear. This beautiful Cape is a majestic piece of the land that is actually the most Eastern part of North America. The amazing experience is going there for a sunrise (I have) so you can be the actual first person in North America to see the sun on that day.
- Osheaga – On literally another note anthem, Osheaga is the annual summer Alternative Music Festival held over three days in Montreal, Canada. I include this because it’s opportunity to simply get lost and involved in a musical, cultural and social phenomenon. The catch is that you are doing it with about 100, 000 other people. Sure, you’re not standing on shore with no one around for miles – just the opposite. But there is something I it if Alternative Music is your thing – there’s actually a wide range of music in this genre. The people are nice, there is an air of freedom and fun. There’s even a kind of “Burning Man (Nevada Desert), feel to the place.
I’d be interested in hearing about your getaways and experiences.
photo credit: Newfoundland and Labrador Dept. of Tourism
The important part of the title is “your approach”. Just like your own finger print, your stress is unique and the approach to deal with stress and anxiety is as individual as you.
- Thinking is an important aspect of any approach to daily stress or anxiety. The style of our thought patterns often plays a role in how we deal with challenges such as stressors or symptoms of anxiety. One of the Best approaches is seen in the Centre for Positive Psychology that is directed by Dr. Martin Seligman at the University of Pennsylvania.
2. Physical Activity remains an important part of any approach to the management of daily stress and symptoms of anxiety. There is quite a lot of research to support the benefits of regular exercise for mental and physical health. Especially exercise that you enjoy. I previously reviewed an article posted by the American Psychological Association.
Your Approach to Taking Care of Yourself is as Unique as your Fingerprint
3. Getting Help . Help can come in the form of a good book that you find to have the information that you need , such as Kabot-Zinn’s Full Catastrophie Living or a therapist who is trained in the area in which you need help. Psychologists and other mental health professionals, especially in private practices, are able to list the areas of specialty in their public listings. You can also see what organizations and licensing bodies they are affiliated with. If you feel that you need the assistance of a professional – it’s important to get someone suitable for you. Most will even answer questions before you make a commitment to refer yourself.
These are some key features that I recommend considering.. I’m interested in your views.
Even though the list can be endless, I think that the following 5 components of tacking your stress are essential for any plan!
1 . ENJOY the activities that you are using to deal with your stress.
The American Heart Association has outlined the importance of actually incorporating enjoyable and pleasurable activities into your stress management plan. Doing things that you simply don’t enjoy does not work
2. Include Physical Exercise in you Stress and Anxiety Management.
3. Deal with Stress at Work.
4. Learn Assertiveness and Self Respect
5. Avoid the overuse of substances or artificial way to Reduce Stress .
Using substances like alcohol, drugs or ingestion of food and drinks such as cola or coffee can become an ineffective way – as well as problematic- to deal with stress. Simply put – It’s important to watch this aspect of your life and not make your “go to’s” a problem area for you. A relaxing coffee, tea, meal or other things like this can be a great part of your day. The National Library of Medicine has an interesting article on stress and vulnerability to addiction that is linked here.
Please add your comments and tips . This is just part of a plan for stress and anxiety management that can be effective.
Mindfulness, first made really popular by John Kabot-Zinn (sp) the author of “Full Catastrophe Living”, wanted people to be able to be present in their own experience of stress, joy, excitement and just simply the human experience. We now have a wide variety of “Mindful” approaches to stress anxiety and life management. Ultimately it’s the experience of living a moment in the fullest and hopefully feeling positive, aware and good.
We can all be our own experts on developing an approach that is unique and effective for each of us. The other day I was caught in a moment where I watched some spring chickadees at my bird feeder as I pulled into my driveway. A few minutes passed as I watched them fly to and from the protection of a nearby bush. I really didn’t think about it as mindfulness at the time but I was not thinking about anything else for those few minutes except the two small creatures and the beauty of the scene (cue the music). Anyway, that a mindful experience.
I’d be interested to hear about the experiences of others.
The live-Stress program is a program and approach to the management of Stress and Anxiety for better mental health. This site is administered by D.Perry who is the author of the live-Stress Relaxation CD. The program will be available on this site. Also Dean Perry is available on Amazon and iTunes if you search for his relaxation and Positive Memory Building Exercise.
The live-Stress program is mainly a progressive muscle relaxation program that is guided by the author with a relaxing and positive cues and background music. There is a track on the CD that is called a “positive memory building exercise”. The exercise is a type of mindfulness session that asks you to recall some positive, stress free and maybe relaxing events or scenes in your life in order to build your own coping and body/mind calming event that you can draw on at any time. People have found the cd and overall approach to be helpful and effective.
A link to buy the CD is also going to be posted here. In the meantime you can ask to purchase the CD for $20 US (shipping included) by cantacting firstname.lastname@example.org.
With Spring in the air, it’s a time when most people have had enough of winter and are ready for some new – mainly spring and summer. The restrictions of the winter months are starting to loosen up. It’s a time when one can perhaps start to be more active and maybe a bit adventurous with some outings and new challenges. If walking or running is your thing, it might be helpful to add a mindfulness aspect to it by actually looking around and experiencing the world around you. This also helps to bring the focus outward rather than inward. Ironically it “is all about you” but your focus can actually be on the singing of the birds or the rising or setting sun.